Here I will link to all of my gender-related pages on this site, with brief summaries.

Blog posts

An Introduction to My Nonbinary Gender: I am nonbinary. This post explains the basics of what that means, for me. This is a good place to start if you’re unfamiliar with nonbinaryness as a concept.

They/she Q&A: I use they/she pronouns. This post explains the basics of what that means, for me. This is a good place to start if you’re unfamiliar with people using multiple pronoun sets.

Learning to talk: A poem about the pain and joy of voice training.

Scavenged Metal Collection: ✧Gender✧!

Gender: Desire and Identity: Do you wish things were different, gender-wise? Wish you were a man, or a woman, or neither? But you don’t feel like you are the gender you wish you were? Your feelings are valid, and you’re not alone. I was in the same boat for many years. Come read this post.

Gender Identity, Without Label or Category: Building upon the previous post, gender identity isn’t about adopting a standardized label. It’s about feeling gender from the inside.

Trans Brainworms: Discussing and dismantling the narratives that get into trans people’s heads, before we hatch and understand ourselves. Narratives about why we can’t be trans or we can’t explore or we can’t come out.

Trans Q&A for TDoV: For Trans Day of Visibility (March 31st), I asked people to ask me questions about being trans, and I answered them here. I’m planning to make this an annual thing.

SGGO 1: Community Approach to Gender: The initial episode of my podcast, Some Gender Going On. This episode is about focusing on community when it comes to understanding gender, rather than systems of classification, such as the medical, scientific, or binary models. I’m planning to make more episodes.

Transition photos

I started estrogen HRT on April 18th, 2023. Every month since then, I’ve been taking photos in a variety of lovely locations to document and celebrate how my appearance changes.